Paige set a record for time outs this weekend. I honestly lost count. I know it was at least three times this morning, at least twice this afternoon, once in Target, twice in the Mall yesterday morning, and at least 4 times at home yesterday. She also lost her Dora and her Goldfish (crackers) privelages today, and had her dolly taken away for the day twice (both Saturday and Sunday--she was throwing it). She's been throwing her toys, hitting, pulling hair, screaming, hitting more, and just having temper tantrums...about the only thing she didn't do was attack Ella, who wisely has been fairly absent this weekend. Toward the end of the day, timeouts were officially extended to a full minute from now on, up from 30 seconds. That seemed to help a little.
In between being a terror, Paige has been an angel. She can be incredibly sweet one minute and then be downright awful the next. She's gotten very good at saying that she's "sorry for ___" after her time outs. Almost too good--in the car ride home, she was doing high pitched screams followed by immediately "sorry for screaming." Apparently, saying "sorry" doesn't mean as much as it once did to her.
Three ideas on what's going on. 1) it's a stage where she's once again decided to challenge our authori-tay and see what she can get away with, 2) she hasn't been feeling good and is taking it out on us (we have no other reason to think this, except maybe for sleep habits), and 3) she's noticed that mom and dad have been a little stressed and distracted lately and is acting out in response. I imagine that all three could be true on some level.
The thing that's strange about this weekend's acting out is that it hasn't, usually, be in response to us not paying attention to her. That's usually when it happens. We actually had lots of quality time with her this weekend, be it playing with her, reading to her, or even going down to Lakemont Park to see the lights. If anything, I've had more time to spend with her since the semester ended a week ago. Hopefully she'll snap out of this soon--I'm not looking forward to long road trips with her acting like this.
At least she's going to sleep again. A few days ago, she started letting me pick her up and sing her a song before I put her into bed (as opposed to letting her climb into bed herself and then doing the singing while she's laying down). This is much closer to what we did when she was still in her crib, and it seems to really help. The last few nights she has actually asked to go to sleep after the second song or so. Not the same child we were dealing with a few weeks back.
3 comments:
Hi Justin and Jen!! Thanks for the new picture of Paige and the Christmas card!! My fridge is full of people and pet pictures!!
As for little Paige's pushing you guys to see how far you will go.....I say Super Nanny!! LOL ....For real!! Have fun!!! Kiss her for me!! :-)
Merry Christmas!!
We're so glad to hear she is getting all that out of her system before coming to spend time with Nama & Pop {grin}. Of course she will be a complete angel while here-- Grandparents are amazingly easy going as they age, aren't they :-).
Love you all--"Nama" Stephenson...wonder if Paige will keep calling me Nama, I like it!
I'm so glad you guys left your blog! Paige is getting SO big since last xmas (duh.. but it's amazing to see through photos!) Good luck with the after-inspection stuff. We are now in the same place and I'm a little nervous but hoping it all goes smoothly!!!
If it makes you feel any better, Ellie (who is not quite 2 but will be in March) is the same way, behaviorally. I figured out recently that part of it has to do with her cutting molars.. if Paige hasn't cut her 2 yrs yet that could be it!!!
ciao! :)
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